What I like about being a Reformer

• I am self-disciplined and have achieved many things.
• I have high standards and ethics and never compromise myself.
• I am reasonable, responsible and dedicated to everything I do.
• I like to be the best that I can be.

What I don’t like about being a Reformer

• I’m disappointed with myself and others for not meeting my expectations.
• I’m a perfectionist and not always appreciated by people.
• I get angry when other people don’t try as hard as I do.
• I am too intense about everything and burdened by responsibilities.

Things I would never do

• Laugh off criticism
• Forgive myself for making mistakes.
• Neglect my own interests.
• Be late for an appointment.

How to relate with me

• Help to share some of the responsibility.
• Congratulate me on my achievements.
• Help me to be less critical.
• Show me you value my advice
• Encourage me to take myself less seriously.
• Apologise if you have upset me, it will help me to forgive.

Things people say about me

• “He is a perfectionist and works hard at getting everything right.”
• “He can be relied on to finish an assignment, even if it means taking the work home.”
• “He won’t do anything he believes is unethical.”

Things I should affirm to myself

• It’s all right to relax and laugh at myself.
• It’s all right to make mistakes.
• I will learn not to take myself too seriously or constantly demand perfection.